Thursday, November 23, 2006

Thanksgiving

Hi Fellas,

By the time you get this I will probably be a day late and a dollar short, but I just wanted to wish you all a Happy Thanksgiving.

While thanksgiving is not celebrated so far south, I still want to take time to say I am thankful for each and everyone of you, who has shared my life's path over the last year.

Bless you all
With Love
woe

Wednesday, November 15, 2006

Reporting live from the far South.

Hey Good People of Blogsphere,

Still the salt mine keeps me out of the world I like to be a part of. If this continues I am going to look for a new salt mine.

It has been a month and a half now since I moved out. I am enjoying some of the new found freedom I have. Not having to give account of my time to anyone is wonderful. I live in fear of getting into a complete slut phase, with this freedom. I am told it is inevitable. I guess time will tell.

My social circle has grown some which is good, because it distracts me from the one area I am not coping with. I miss my kids and it rips my heart out to see them and then to have to say good bye. I stopped mourning my marriage months ago. I fear with my kids though I may never stop crying.

Slowly but surely I have been inching out of the closet with people whom I believe I can trust. In a moment of stupidity perhaps I outed myself to a collegue at work. As soon as the words were out of my mouth I thought to myself that was really stupid to do. He was very nice about it, said he could not care less what my sexuality was and that nothing in our relationship would change. He has lived up to that which is great. It is going to be awesome one day to not live in a closet anymore.

In other gay news South Africa is another step closer to legalising gay marriage. The deadline set by the Constitutional Court (South Africa's highest court) is the 1st of December 2006. Speaking for myself it is inconcievable for me right now that I would ever consider marriage again. Still I am happy that this move towards equal rights for all is taking place.

I hope you are all well. I hope to at least get to pay you all a visit within the day.

With love as always,

a not so woeful, woe.